Sometimes, moderately let each other desperate, is also a strategic means.
Encountered is not so close friends to find you want to borrow 10,000, you can only lend him 1,000, but you can not come directly up to say that I can only give you 1,000, so that the friend took the money still have to be in the heart of the slander you this person is too not to give, borrow 10,000 only to give 1,000.
More in line with the local characteristics of the mode of operation is, you have to say to friends first buddy, I am now worse than your situation, I borrowed a lot of money outside now can not pay, that whoever borrowed my money for three years did not pay me back, in the friend feel desperate, you then come to a sentence, but you want to be really in a hurry, I can credit card cash a thousand to you.
In this way, the friend to get a thousand, not to say extra grateful to you, but at least will not be back to say you do not give.
President Pei was the same.
He did not want to offend Jacob Wilson, but can not directly reject Jacob Wilson said that the president of the seat you do not want to, that will let Jacob Wilson think, how I have something you have to leave me out of the relationship, do not protect me also do not help me, it is too meaningless.
Therefore, he first greatly reduced Jacob Wilson’s psychological expectations, all this time, you still want to be president na? To tell you the truth, you can not stay in the association is an unknown quantity.
At this time, and then give Jacob Wilson a little space to turn around, he will certainly be grateful to agree.
At this moment, President Pei saw that the atmosphere was almost over, and Jacob Wilson did start to be afraid of being removed from the association, before he sighed and opened his mouth: “Jacob ah, our relationship is so close, I’ll definitely do my best to protect you in this matter! Although I can’t guarantee the position of executive vice president, I will try to guarantee you a vice president’s seat, if the vice president’s seat can’t be guaranteed, at least I will also guarantee you a director’s position! Don’t worry, in this Painting and Calligraphy Association, if there’s me, there’s you!”
The psychological construction that Jacob Wilson had just done was the possibility of being swept away by the Calligraphy and Painting Association.
But now the promise he received was to secure at least a director’s position, and even the possibility of securing an ordinary vice president’s position.
This instantly made him feel relieved as if he had survived a robbery.
It felt like a serious illness into the hospital, the doctor said his situation is very serious, a high probability to cool, and finally amputated two legs survived, although two legs are gone is really miserable, but at least the person is still alive.
So he thanked him profusely and said: “Oh President Pei, you are really my life-saver ah President Pei! This time old brother really thanks to you!”
President Pei heard him so excited, also know that he this favour, Jacob Wilson is owed, so he spoke: “so Jacob, you ah, or first outside to play a few days to avoid the wind, don’t rush back, you do not come back, will not become a target, things will be handled by my side.”
Hearing President Pei let himself out of the wind, Jacob Wilson want to cry, the heart thought: “My President Pei, this is the fifth master of the heavenly mansion no box, so I did not care to tell you that I have been to Aurous Hill, you now let me out of the wind, together I do not toss for nothing? Not only this round trip of more than 10,000 kilometres of the plane for nothing, in the economy class to stay eight hours of crime for nothing, the most fucked up is 300,000 also for nothing! What have I done to deserve this?”
However, this he only dared to spit in his heart, never dare to say out, so can only be very grateful said: “good Pei chairman, then I’m not in a hurry to go back to …… you can not disclose to me, you intend to how to operate this matter?”